“I like my women like I like my coffee” is a meme that has been used on many images. “A Negro comedian pulled this one: ‘I like my coffee strong and black—the same way I like my women’” was cited in the New York (NY) Amsterdam News in July 1944. “Hot..and black, too” was an answer in 1973. “Hot and sweet” was cited in 1974. “Hot, sweet and black” was cited in 1994. 
     
A joke variation involves Irish coffee. “I like my women like I like my coffee. Irish” was posted on Reddit—Jokes on January 5, 2016. “I like my women like I like my coffee—Irish” was posted on Twitter by “Blue - it all tastes the same in the dark” on October 7, 2020. “I like my women like I like my coffee ... Irish and stinking of whiskey” was posted on Reddit—Jokes on November 6, 2021.
       
     
Wikipedia: Irish coffee 
Irish coffee (Irish: caife Gaelach) is a cocktail consisting of hot coffee, Irish whiskey, and sugar, stirred, and topped with cream. The coffee is drunk through the cream.
           
29 July 1944, New York (NY) Amsterdam News, “Belittling Jokes Choke Minorities” by Abe Hill, pg. 8B, col. 1:
A Negro comedian pulled this one: “I like my coffee strong and black—the same way I like my women.”
     
12 May 1973, Journal and Guide (Norfolk, VA), “I Like My Coffee Like I Like My Women…,” pg. 10, col. 5:
“Madam,’ he said, ‘our coffee is cold. I like my coffee like I like my women—Hot!’
   
“‘Yes Sir,’ she replied with a grin. ‘And Black, too?’”
 
Reddit—Jokes
Posted by u/ThePeoplesBard January 5, 2016
I like my women like I like my coffee.
Irish.
     
Twitter
Blue - it all tastes the same in the dark
@roomof13doors
Replying to @Kitteh_Catster
I like my women like I like my coffee
Irish.
8:15 AM · Oct 7, 2020·Twitter for Android
   
Twitter
mae
@hsrockrry
I like my men like I like my coffee. Irish.
5:34 AM · Jan 12, 2021·Twitter for iPhone
   
Twitter
Serialchiller
@Serialchiller1
I like my men like I like my coffee, tall, Irish and cold.
12:48 PM · Jan 16, 2021·Twitter for iPhone
   
Twitter
[Heart on fire]
@neptunelink
i like my men like i like my coffee, irish
9:46 PM · Jul 12, 2021·Twitter for iPhone
   
Twitter
J(ust) T(arantulas)
@Fr8TrainKiss
Replying to @NansomeGarlic
Ooh, I have a coffee one too!
“I like my women like I like my coffee: Irish with a strong bite.”
9:44 PM · Aug 23, 2021·Twitter Web App
   
Twitter
Irregular Expression
@alandwilbur
I like my women like I like my coffee: Irish.
10:07 PM · Aug 26, 2021·Twitter for iPhone
   
Twitter
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@voytkostudios
I like my men like I like my coffee: Irish.
2:06 PM · Sep 28, 2021·Twitter for iPhone
 
Reddit—Jokes
Posted by u/eddie964 November 6, 2021
I like my women like I like my coffee ...
... Irish and stinking of whiskey.