“If they act like they can live without you, help them do it” is an inspirational saying that has been printed on many images. That is, if people don’t value you, then don’t give them any of your value.
 
“If they act like they can live without you, let them” was posted on Twitter  by Courtney on September 12, 2012. “If they act like they can live without you help them” was posted on Twitter by SUSANSIMMONS on June 17, 2014. “If they act like they can live without you…then help them do it” was posted on Twitter by Tip O. on September 5, 2015. The saying was probably popularized by an image.
   
       
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Courtney
@qquartneynicole
If they act like they can live without you, let them.
10:09 PM · Sep 12, 2012·Twitter for iPhone
   
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Marilyn Solomon
@_marilynsolomon
If they act like they can live without you #letthem
5:37 PM · Oct 2, 2012·Twitter for iPhone
   
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SUSANSIMMONS
@Sexysus1
If they act like they can live without you help them
2:17 PM · Jun 17, 2014·Tweetlogix
 
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Tip O.
@yeahthattip5
If they act like they can live without you…then help them do it ✌🏽
7:27 PM · Sep 5, 2015·Twitter for iPhone
 
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Amber
@keepingupwitham
If they act like they can live without you….help them do it.
3:27 PM · Sep 6, 2015·Twitter for iPhone
 
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Nadia.
@faraaanadia
Its not about ego…. but If they act like they can live without you, help them do it.
11:40 AM · Feb 7, 2016·Twitter for iPhone
 
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jamalbryant
@jamalhbryant
If they act like they can live without you…..help them
2:17 AM · Jul 20, 2016·Echofon
 
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ICY GYRL
@Raymondcams
if they act like they can live without you…help them do it.
11:18 PM · Sep 26, 2016·Twitter Web Client
 
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afro archangel jay
@JAYVERSACE
IF THEY ACT LIKE THEY CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU.. HELP THEM DO IT.
4:40 AM · Mar 25, 2017·Twitter for iPhone
     
Google Books
Soul Notes
By Finja Brandenburg
Kiel, Germany: KIELUA Creative Collective
Pg. 139:
If they act like they can live without you, help them do it.
 
YourTango
20 Break Up Quotes That Remind Us That Relationship Red Flags Are No Joke
Beth El Fattal
April 11, 2019
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6. Let them fall before you help them back up.
“If they act like they can live without you, help them do it.”  — Unknown