A “neoconette” is a female “neocon” (neoconservative). Neocons can be both male and female, so the term “neoconette” is a somewhat jocular usage. “Neoconette” has been cited in print since at least 2007.
 
   
Wikipedia: Neoconservative
Neoconservatism (commonly shortened to neocon) is a political movement born in the United States during the 1960s among conservative-leaning Democrats who became disenchanted with the party’s foreign policy. Many of its adherents became politically famous during the Republican presidential administrations of the 1970s, 1980s, 1990s and 2000s. Neoconservatives peaked in influence during the administration of George W. Bush, when they played a major role in promoting and planning the 2003 invasion of Iraq. Prominent neoconservatives in the George W. Bush administration included Paul Wolfowitz, Elliott Abrams, Richard Perle and Paul Bremer. Senior officials Vice President Dick Cheney and Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld, while not identifying as neoconservatives, listened closely to neoconservative advisers regarding foreign policy, especially the defense of Israel and the promotion of democracy in the Middle East.
     
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Glorious Godfrey 01.06.07 at 6:03 pm
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Marjane Satrapi´s stuff (Persepolis, Embroideries, etc.) should prove interesting. If the wife´s a terrorist-appeasing pinko, the tale of Satrapi´s life between Iran and the West will warm the cockles of her bleeding heart. If she´s a neoconette, well, know thine enemy and all that.
 
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Rob McNealy‏
@RobMcNealy
Replying to @stickergiant
@johnfischer She is a NeoConette. Like Smurfette, but with a bent for World War 3 served on a bible.  LOL
10:52 PM - 2 Sep 2008
 
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ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ!‏
@nativist
@ktmcfarland @FoxNews @marthamaccallum wow it didn’t take long, you are on board.  #goodbye #neoconette
9:06 AM - 7 Oct 2013
   
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IHJNG‏
@IhjngKs
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And @HillaryClinton & fellow ‘neoconette’ Victoria #Nuland will try to finish Breedlove’s job. More bloodshed. Sad.IHJNG added,
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Hacked emails reveal NATO general plotting against Obama on Russia policy http://interc.pt/29xJHEQ  @lhfang @ZaidJilani
12:03 PM - 3 Jul 2016
 
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Noor Nahas‏
@NoorNahas1
Is it too early to say congrats to all the neocons and neoconettes out there?
8:22 PM - 6 Apr 2017
 
LewRockwell.com
I Can’t Stand Nimrata Haley
By Llewellyn H. Rockwell, Jr.
July 6, 2017
The bloodthirsty neoconette.